1 c. milk
3 tbsp. flour
1 tsp. favorite flavoring

Mix together. Cool until thick like pudding. Then cool. 1/2 c. (1 stick) butter 1 c. sugar

After pudding part is cooled whip butter, shortening and sugar until very fluffy. Then add 1 spoonful of pudding mix one at a time, continue to whip until all pudding is used up. Continue to whip for 10-15 minutes until very fluffy. You can add nuts or coconut if desired.