1 head shredded cabbage
1/3 c. sugar
1/2 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper
1/4 c. milk
1/2 c. mayo-Hellmann's
1/4 c. buttermilk, or substitute 1 tbsp. lemon juice or cider vinegar and milk
1 carrot, grated
1 1/2 tbsp. white vinegar
2 1/2 tbsp. lemon juice

Mix and enjoy.